Pittsburgh Divorce Mediation Attorneys

Representing People in Butler, Somerset, Washington, and Westmoreland Counties for Over 20 Years

Most people think that the process of all divorces consists of bitter court battles and constant disagreements, but divorces don’t have to be this way. Divorce mediation is a great way to divorce amicably with an open and collaborative environment for couples. With the help of a mediator and representing attorneys, couples can create win-win solutions for their divorce agreement. If you and your spouse are willing to discuss your issues openly, divorce mediation is a great option.

The attorneys at Notaro Epstein Family Law Group, P.C. provide traditional mediation services, and we are available to draft, review and finalize agreements from other mediators. Our legal team creates a secure, friendly office environment to ensure that our clients are as comfortable as possible during mediation.

Don’t hesitate to contact online our Pittsburgh divorce mediation lawyers today for a free initial consultation at (412) 281-1988!

What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a process in which a neutral third party—called a mediator—facilitates communication between both spouses to help them reach a mutual agreement on issues related to their divorce. These issues may include asset division, child custody, spousal support, and other matters that need to be resolved before a divorce can be finalized.

Unlike a traditional adversarial divorce, where each party hires their own attorney and litigation takes place in court, mediation provides a more collaborative approach. Our Pittsburgh divorce mediation attorney’s role is to guide the discussion, encourage open communication, and help the parties find common ground. 

Benefits of Divorce Mediation

Opting for divorce mediation can offer several key advantages over traditional litigation. Some of the most notable benefits include:

• Cost-Effective: Divorce mediation is generally much more affordable than litigation. Traditional divorce proceedings often involve numerous court appearances, lengthy discovery processes, and high fees, which can quickly add up. Mediation allows for a more streamlined and focused process, reducing the need for prolonged legal battles and minimizing legal expenses.
• Less Stressful: Divorce can be an emotionally charged process, but mediation aims to reduce the stress of litigation by promoting cooperation rather than conflict. By focusing on mutual agreement, mediation offers a more respectful and less adversarial environment. 
• Control Over the Outcome: In a courtroom setting, a judge makes the final decisions on key issues. With mediation, both spouses have more control over the outcome. Through collaboration, the parties can negotiate terms that work for both sides, ensuring that their needs and priorities are met in ways that a judge might not be able to accommodate.
• Faster Resolution: Mediation is typically a quicker process than a contested divorce. Scheduling and court delays can drag on a traditional divorce for months or even years. In contrast, mediation allows for flexible scheduling and faster resolution of the issues at hand. 
• Privacy and Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are private, unlike court hearings, which are generally open to the public. All discussions in mediation are confidential, meaning that sensitive financial, personal, and emotional issues are not exposed in front of strangers. This helps maintain a level of privacy and dignity during what can already be a difficult time.
• Better Long-Term Relationships: Divorce often requires ongoing communication, especially if children are involved. By engaging in mediation, both spouses may be able to develop more effective communication strategies, fostering a healthier post-divorce relationship. This can be particularly beneficial when co-parenting, as mediation encourages mutual respect and cooperation.

Mediation is an opportunity to take control of the process and reach a resolution on your own terms. Our Pittsburg divorce attorneys will work with you every step of the way, helping you understand your options and ensuring that your rights are protected throughout the process.

Common Issues Addressed in Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation can help resolve a wide range of issues. Common topics that are typically addressed include:

1. Property Division

In Pennsylvania, divorce law follows an equitable distribution model, meaning that marital property will be divided fairly but not necessarily equally. Through mediation, both spouses can negotiate how to divide property, assets, and debts. This might include decisions about the family home, retirement accounts, investments, and other valuable assets.

2. Child Custody and Visitation

One of the most sensitive issues in divorce is child custody. Mediation provides a platform for parents to work together to create a parenting plan that best serves the children’s interests. This might include determining physical and legal custody arrangements, visitation schedules, holiday plans, and decision-making responsibilities regarding education, healthcare, and other important matters.

3. Child Support

In Pennsylvania, both parents are responsible for financially supporting their children. Through mediation, parents can agree on a fair child support arrangement that accounts for their income, expenses, and the child’s needs. Mediation allows for flexibility, and parents can work together to find solutions that are fair to both parties.

4. Spousal Support (Alimony)

Spousal support may be necessary in cases where one spouse earns significantly more than the other or has greater financial resources. Mediation can help determine whether spousal support is appropriate and, if so, the amount and duration of the payments. The goal is to create an arrangement that allows both spouses to maintain financial stability after the divorce.

5. Debt Allocation

In addition to dividing assets, divorce mediation also addresses how to allocate debt. This might include credit card balances, mortgages, personal loans, or any other debts incurred during the marriage. Both parties can negotiate how to fairly divide responsibility for repaying these debts in a way that is manageable for each individual.

Common Divorce Mediation Questions

The following are commonly asked questions about mediation. With proper understanding of the mediation process and its purpose, you may find that this process is the right alternative for your divorce and other family law issues.

Who Makes Decisions in a Divorce Mediation Regarding My Property & Child Custody?

In divorce mediation, you and your spouse make the decision. When attorneys litigate a divorce before a judge in a courtroom, the ultimate decision is determined by a judge. A couple who chooses to mediate their divorce can make their own decisions regarding custody, property, etc., with the guidance of a mediator. Couples have more control over the outcome of their family law issues, without having to stress about litigation.

Mediation also allows a divorcing couple to consider factors that the legal system does not. In a courtroom, two adversarial spouses typically have 5 hours to 5 days to present their cases, conditions, and all evidence collected to the judge. A couple is limited in the admissibility of the evidence that they may present at trial, and the judge has limited time to make a decision. In mediation, a divorcing couple has unlimited time and freedom to negotiate a fair agreement. The couple has the advantage of giving themselves the time they need to consider important issues. Also, the couple also can consult attorneys outside of the mediation setting regarding their agreements for a second opinion.

Why Mediate When I Have to Hire an Attorney Anyway?

When a couple chooses to mediate their divorce, they can address all aspects of their divorce, including the drafting of paperwork, and even the custody their pets. As a team of mediators, we can guide the couple through the decision-making process, while offering suggestions and information relating to Pennsylvania family law. Both of the spouses have to have their divorce attorney for the mediation process.

What Happens If I Start Fighting With My Spouse During Mediation?

Couples who decide to mediate their divorce should make a strong effort to leave their personal problems “at the door.” However, this doesn’t mean that a couple won’t be tempted to fight when discussing serious matters. However, it is an advantage to have spouses face-to-face in the same room discussing legal issues. For one, it eliminates the “middlemen” in negotiating agreements. Mediation offers a neutral setting in which a couple can streamline their negotiations by speaking directly to each other, with a neutral party there to “referee” the process. A mediator's job is to guide the couple through their own decision-making process.

What Can a Mediator Lawyer Offer?

While both attorney-mediators and non-attorney mediators have been trained in family and divorce mediation, the type of training attorneys receive is more extensive. Our mediator divorce lawyer in Pittsburgh can provide spouses with important information regarding Pennsylvania law to help them make their own decisions about a fair agreement. A mediator-attorney can also assist in drafting the divorce documents (Property Settlement Agreement, Complaint in Divorce, etc.) to obtain a final decree in divorce from the Court.

Does Divorce Mediation Cost Less Than Litigating a Divorce?

In most situations, yes. Many spouses choose to split the cost of the mediation. Couples save by paying a single retainer rate instead of paying for two separate attorneys. Costly court litigation can also be avoided with mediation. Although there are a few costs that are necessary for every divorce (i.e., filing of the divorce documents), a couple can avoid fees in typical litigated family matters.

Contact Our Pittsburgh Divorce Mediation Lawyers Today at (412) 281-1988!

The attorneys at Notaro Epstein Family Law Group, P.C. are unique among Pennsylvania divorce mediators because they have the added experience of being family law attorneys. Our Pittsburgh attorneys bring to the table their experience in the area of peaceful conflict resolution, and laws on pertinent family and divorce issues. We are also skilled in preparing prenuptial agreements as well as property settlement agreements. We offer clients guidance in all aspects of family law.

Contact our experienced Pittsburgh divorce mediation attorneys today for a free initial consultation at (412) 281-1988!